Tuesday, March 22, 2016

The Book

 
This is "The Book"
 
This is a book that my Mother kept in her pantry, rubber band included even though this is a new one. I remember looking through it once or twice as a kid.  She tucked in recipes cut out of the paper and it even has two cuttings of her hair from when she was 24 and 25; a very pretty reddish auburn color.
 
"The Book" has no spine, hence the rubber band.  It originally was a Warne's Calendar of Medical History, 1934-35.  My birthday was on a Wednesday in 1935. It has pictures of different medical facilities around the world as well as famous doctors from days gone by. So what made "The Book" so intriguing to me as a child?  I'm not sure. I remember seeing it in the pantry and wondering what was in it, but don't remember looking THROUGH it.   




I became it's new owner, keeper of the recipes, after my Mother passed. I've looked through it a couple of times since then.  But, recently I was wanting to look through it again and couldn't remember where I had stored it.  Then BAM I open a box and there it was.  I sat down with it one night and looked through it again.  With all the recipes that are written, mostly using a cartridge pen, in the book - I don't recall my Mother making many of them.  A few are there that gave light on to where the recipe came from.  Many were from family members (Aunt Rita, Joe's Mother (my Nonna) and my sisters), neighbors (Mrs. O, Mrs. C and Mrs. S), the Dinah Shore Show and an old classmate of mine (Susan B) .  I was quite surprised when I read a recipe for Onion Ring Batter, which I use a lot, actually originated from my oldest sister.  I have been passing it off as my Mom's all these years.  This is the recipe I pass on when they ask to give the bride a family recipe. I think I will type up these recipes on some Christmas paper and send them with a Christmas card to the family and friends respectively.

So I have a question for "The Book".  Where are the recipes that my Mother made that were special to us?  Where is the Lemon-Lime Jello Salad (shredded carrot and chopped celery - maybe even shredded cabbage)?  Where is nut roll recipe that she made at Easter and Christmas, mostly Christmas? 

By looking through "The Book" I've found that I have a characteristic of my Mother's.  She recorded the ingredients for the Spaghetti Sauce for Christmas 1974 and the cost  for each item. She listed the information for sauce made for Chris, Sept 12, 1977, Mother's Day 1976, Easter 1975, 1976, Christmas 1975 and "Ravioli filling & sauce for when Rita and Wadie come, June 16, 1975".  I learned what makes "The Trinity" - celery, onions, green peppers.  She kept a picture of the Bunny Cake that I made for many Easters.

Does "The Book" hold any secrets?  I think it has opened more questions than giving answers. But, I did find one strange entry on the back cover of the book.  It has an address for Carlo C..... in San Francisco, CA.  What I need to find out is if Carlo was a brother to my Nonno or another family member.  Ancestry.com here I come.

"The Book" is literally falling apart almost as soon as air hits it. I'm glad I'm the new keeper of "The Book".  I will have to try making the White Fruit Cake, Prince of Wales Cake or even the Lemon Coconut Cream Cake. I never had any of these cakes and wonder why they are in "The Book".  Oh wait a minute - it just dawned on me that I have "A Shoebox" full of recipes I've cut out and have never tried.  ha  And so it continues........


Love and Peace   

Thursday, January 28, 2016

As I was saying......

Whoa! Life got busy with the holidays and getting organized for the new year - 2016.  I'm not completely there yet, okay I'm not even half way there; okay - at least I've started.  Still have some rooms to go through and projects to finish up.  All in good time.  But, then again there's no time like the present.  Do you think we really ever get "there"?  You know - the closets have been cleaned out, Goodwill has all your "stuff" - never "junk" because we don't keep "junk".  But, do we really ever get "there"? "There" being where we know where everything is because it has a place or the kids now have it and you don't really care what they do with it.  What about the "catch all" room who's  going to clean it out?

Winter is the perfect time for doing such a chore.  You're shut in the house and the cold keeps everyone else from going outside and knocking on your door. It always feels so good to decorate the house for the holidays. It even feels better after they're over and you stand back and take a nice long look at the sparkling clean rooms.  A sigh of relief passes and you feel that life can get back to normal again.  Except when that nagging sciatica shows up to hang around for over a week congratulating you on all the hard work you did. Nothing that a really good massage can't take care of.

A good reason comes to mind about getting "there". Death. Attending a funeral for someone who is in your same age bracket makes one think about it all. Thoughts of family going through the "stuff" and cursing under their breaths about how much "stuff" there is to go through makes one cringe.  Some of us have already been on this end of it with our parents.  It felt so good to know that Mother kept my school papers or my favorite poncho. But, now what happens to it other than sitting in a box somewhere. Leaving our "stuff" for someone else who doesn't have the emotional attachments to discard it isn't what we want. But, sometimes making that final discard decision isn't what we want either.

There is a separation of family now. The kids have different thoughts about "stuff". They don't really care if it belonged to your grandmother/father because they didn't know them.  They don't have the emotional attachments to our "stuff" that we do.  Antique stores are FULL of  this "stuff".  They would be a gold mind if the kids would go retro and shop there.  Most "stuff" has more than one purposeful use than its' original selling point.  Making curtains out of tablecloths for the dinning room gets lots of compliments.  Using old dresser scarves for knitting  project bags or a toddler's diddie-bag is very useful. Lots of things have more than one purpose and its fun sharing with others and seeing their reactions about what it was or how you made it work for you.

Death makes us think of other things as well.  Have we taken care of the "stuff" rattling around in our heads?  Do we need to get "there" with someone?  Do we need to say "I Love You" more often? Do we need to leave instructions on what to do with our "stuff" after we're gone?  There are some things that are just too good to go to the thrift store or the charity shop.  People are too kind to ask about the yarn stash or the stamp collection for fear of being too insensitive to the family's emotions.

Yup, now is the time to get "there" and do  something with all this "stuff".  hmmm, okay - tomorrow is the time to get "there" and .......

Ciao!